Picture this...
Sample of cute guy
You meet this cute guy on a social networking site... he looks hot and cute, two ridiculously superficial qualities I can't help but like, and sounds like a decent person when exchanging messages. So then you swap numbers with him and arrange to go out for dinner together...
Everything seems perfect, until you finally meet up, and the thing I say most, on what I consider to be the first date, is none other than: "huh?" and "what?".
Mind you that isn't in response to something crazy or outrageous that he said... rather its because I can't hear him half of the time. That is seriously a real turn off!
Boys, speak up! If I wanted to date a chirping sparrow... I would have done that... although I wouldn't know what we would do in the bedroom. I find it an absolute turn off when guys just whisper their answers... how can we have a decent conversation if I can't hear your responses? Am I scaring you that much that you can't find your voice.
Err... Hello! We aren't in a library okay... you don't have to lower your voice and whisper... The only signal I get from a guy that doesn't talk with a normal volume is that he lacks confidence... and some guys may like a timid, quiet, barely audible boyfriend...(14th century men: women are meant to be seen not heard? or was it slaves?) but not me. I think conversation and communication is important, so if we can't have that, then I don't think anything is going to work out.
Hey, this was just a dinner meet up... Imagine if we were doing some other extra curricular activities together,
"More? Do you want more?"
"..."
"huh? what did you say?" (for the kinkier readers, no he isn't gagged -.-)
“…”
“huh? I cant hear you…”
Well there goes the mood, turn off man...
mind you I was asking him if he wanted to do more reps...
Word of advice boys, speak up, confidence attracts!
Signing out.
Hahaha I had some kinky thoughts in mind when I read the conversation...
ReplyDeleteMaybe he's shy? If u find this as a turn off, but everything else is fine, perhaps you should just tell him straight up that he needs to speak louder.
Or give him a taste of his own medicine and talk super softly too. Maybe then he'll realize the problem :P
I'm beginning to think that you may have a menacing look. :P
ReplyDeleteHmm Jboy, I'm not sure how to say it to him... And as I said... Its such a turn off, I dont even know if I wanna fix it. LoL.
ReplyDeleteWell William, I guess you have to meet me before deciding how scary I look :) Trust me though, I look like a decently normal person. Me thinks... >.<
haha, you will never know la.. Get to know him more.. He might just really open up. =D
ReplyDeletepicky picky picky...aren't we all good at picking?
ReplyDeleteWooo.. Bursting with confidence now aren't ya? ;P
ReplyDeletehaha, thanks Leo, maybe I'll try that...
ReplyDeleteSorry thompson... I cant help it if my ears are picky... and maybe a little bit deaf :p
Yo Ev! hows it going? not bursting la, but I hope the guy I'm dating is :) Although they always say, its a fine line between confidence and cockyness.
hmm Ooi, you want me to hold you closer :) sure as long as I can hear you. Haha
Whats the guys name??
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