All over the world, same-sex couples are feeling the crunch because they are restricted from having children of their own. Whether its religious groups or a political candidate trying to garner support, there is always a shit load of people out there that love spending their free time denying same-sex couples the rights to parenthood. Some even claim that gays and lesbians can’t be good parents.
Well good parenting doesn’t remotely depend on the sexual orientation of the parents, but rather depends on how they are as a person. Same-sex parents can be as good or as bad as any hetero parents, and that is a fact…
When I was back in Malaysia, I was having dinner in one of the ice-cream parlours, and to my disgust I saw a young family with a boy no older than four summers old dining as well. I wasn’t disgusted because they were breeders with a child while homos are denied that basic right… rather the fact that the child had a hand-held console all throughout the dining process irked me.
These parents were obviously not at all fit, because they clearly gave the little kid a Nintendo to play so that they can have a peaceful quiet meal. This is BAD PARENTING 101, exposing a child that young to video games is only paving the way for lifelong social ineptness and bad eyesight.
Another thing I personally saw that took my breath away for all the wrong reasons was this:
Can you believe the nerve of that parent, pushing the toddler around in a stroller with a DVD player? Seriously even if the kid doesn’t grow up with a television addiction, he is bound to be at the very least harmed by the radiation of that mobile player.
The bottom line is that parents are good or bad for a variety of reasons, their own upbringing, stress level at work or for the simple reason of being plain ignorant. The once reason I’m sure cannot be directly linked to bad parenting is being gay.
Signing out.
Merdeka in Singapore I: Back to Bugis
2 days ago
the pram kid's eyesight will go down the drain!! and welcome specky in the future! :)
ReplyDeletei wanna be a father in the future!! :)
u can basically adopt a boy with your status as a single unmarried man in malaysia..
ReplyDeleteTakashi, if they know about our sexuality? Will they retrieve back the boy??
ReplyDeletei want to be married in same gender someday. I really love to be married to your love ones by showing them that being third sex is not a curse to all men, being gay is your own choice where do you like to be.. and you have a agency and wisdom to choice what you are..
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